
Originally Posted by
Halliday
Can I ask you where you were "born and raised" and also to mention any memories you care to share? Perhaps you would prefer to keep this information private!
I do not want to be rude or anything, but since I am using my real name both here and on all other forums I am active on, I prefer not to reveal or discuss any specifics, especially since this doesn't just involve me but all the rest of my family too.
Let's just say the memories are largely negative, though it needs to be remembered that nothing is ever just "black or white" - there were good aspects to the system too, and I have no doubt that so long as you kept quiet and just went along with the flow of things without ever expressing opinions that went contrary to approved political ideology, you were able to have a comfortable, secure and stable life. But the price to pay for this was of course your freedom, both physically as well as intellectually.
A few of my memories :
- queuing at the shop at 4am for a delivery of bananas
- ordering your car at the time your kids are born, because it took 20 years to build and deliver
- my sister not being allowed to go to college, simply because my parents weren't party members
- our phones being tapped, and the house bugged
- travelling required special permits, and was allowed only to approved socialist countries
These are the harmless ones, other memories are much worse, but I won't go into details.