I've been doing some reading recently, but I can't quite wrap my head around phonons as particles. I do accept the duality of waves and particles, even if I don't fully understand it, but I can't quite see what properties of a phonon are particle-like. Also, would the same be true for the vibrations of a string or sound waves in the air?
Along the same lines, I've read that if a black hole were approaching Earth, you would be able to hear it, as the gravitational waves would stretch and contract your earbones. How would wave/particle duality apply to those waves?