Thank you MagiMaster, DrRocket, and Arcane_Mathematician for your participation. My intention is not to test you but to learn something from your answers. It is true that I already know the answers to the first two questions. But they were necessary to help you understand what it is that I don't understand.
The correct answer to the second question is number 1. This is the basis of the Newtonian equivalence principle as it relates to active gravitational mass. In
this Wikipedia entry you will find the following equations:
Notice that if:
then
This would result in a third law violation. In 1986 David F. Bartlett and Dave Van Buren used this methodology as the basis for a non-laboratory experiment using the moon
http://prl.aps.org/abstract/PRL/v57/i1/p21_1. Because of the moons unusual distribution of two metals, iron on one side and aluminum on the other, they surmised that if the force that Fe exerts on Al differed from the force that Al exerts on Fe, then the moon would self accelerate and would be in a different orbit than the one predicted by classical physics.
So my third question is, why should Arcane_Mathematician's answer to the second question be incorrect? What makes gravity unique in this respect? If the uneven force pairs in the gravitational thought experiment produces a third law violation, why doesn't the same happen with uneven force pairs in the magnet thought experiment? Wouldn't it be more logical for the gravitational thought experiment to obey the laws of motion the same way the magnet thought experiment does?