Counter argument: your understanding of time dilation is garbled.
The fact that you quoted and said "
"Time moves at a different rate" does not mean anything." tells me that you're either picking on semantics or completely missed my point.
You keep mentioning an observer is required to notice such a thing, but I think that in itself is nonsense. Relativity measures different vector actions from different reference frames, but relativity is merely a consequence of what is currently happening to the position, within the 3 dimensions, you are observing from your reference frame. And once again you aren't disproving anything by mentioning observers as it just shows that you can observe such things happening. Just because you can observe it, it doesn't mean it's happening thus just because you're in a different frame of reference. Something at the observed point should still be happening to affect it.
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So if you try to compare energy measurements between observers in different frames of reference, you cannot expect them to agree. This does not violate the principle of energy conservation."
Most common energy measurements are kinetic energy and thus I'll use velocity as an example as a set velocity has a set kinetic energy. Velocity is a component of change of position, over the change of time. Velocity differs based on reference frame, but the position doesn't. The change of position does. As a point akin to position, why does time differ? Let's say you have two points at a standstill watching each other, the distance between them won't change. Now introduce a gravitational well between them then you'll notice a change in position, but once both of the points are at a standstill, you don't see a difference in distance unless one moves, so why would time differ? Velocity differs because it's moving in a direction and from different reference frames it'll have a different change of position over change of time..
So, why do you use the relativity of a vector and apply it to a positional variant such as time? If anything, time is more likely to have its own 3 dimensions (which I don't think is probable) rather than being a 4th dimension to position.
As for displacement not involving energy change? That in itself is a fallacy. The law of inertia says that an object in motion will remain in motion, and as per the laws of thermodynamics something in constant motion will retain the same kinetic energy. However, for every point of displacement there is always a force acting on objects. On Earth, that is air and gravity. In space, we have gravity. As for matter in space, I don't know. All the dark matter and dark energy stuff going around is confusing and this is another reason I want people to take my own
hypothesis (not theory) with a grain of salt rather than outright dismiss it.
To add to the above, how can you be sure the conservation of energy doesn't apply to the sub-atomic particles? Everything is made from them, and they're the real base of everything happening around us. How unlikely is it that a particle facing gravity on earth and a second particle facing gravity in orbit will have different energy potentials for other functions? If anything it would -prove- (prove is too strong, the word I should have used is add credibility to) the String Theory if that's the case.
I understand what I'm saying is a big claim that basically says a lot of the scientists were chasing fairy tales, but I'm not doing this to be rude. I literally want to know if this is completely outlandish, or if there is a possibility. Science is meant to question everything that has even an ounce of possibility for a different explanation, which I don't think we've reached time dilation to being proven completely as being based on the observer. I question why does the observer see it happen as the explanation of a 4th dimension of time, or time being a vector, to me sounds a lot more outlandish than using the laws we have already proven to be true.
Edit: Oh, just as a bonus. Gravity does affect sound. At least this paper finds it to be so:
https://arxiv.org/abs/1807.08771
Edit 2: Gah. I used position in my vector reference when I should of used distance. All I can say is I messed up the semantics. Yeah, I know position is a vector because it has a direction. Alas, take my explanation with that extra grain of salt that I meant distance. Overall, that example is supposed to say that time is a scalar, and therefore shouldn't be treated relative as a vector is. Time has always been a measurement like distance.
Edit 3: Thank you for moving this to the correct part of the forum! I didn't notice this section earlier, my apologies!