so... we know that atoms if u try to push em together closeup, they push eachother away, u need a fusion reactor to do that and a lot of heat. a way to collide em in almost light speed to get em to really hit eachother. thus weve more or less proven a strong force eminating away from atoms.
the theory i'm proposing is that this is what gravity in essence is, every atom in the universe pushing others away.
now, to make that work it would have to be something very small and something that effects only the cores of atoms. constantly bombarding the cores of every atom from all directions. possibly being a chain reaction as they are bombarded, the cores would release the same amount of matter/ energy resulting in gravity.
in essence gravity in space would be a force that effects every atom in our bodies from all directions with the same amount of force.
on a celestial body a planet sun or black hole, part of this gravity would hit the said celestial body leaving a shadow in the direction of our bodies. what we percieve as a force pulling us down would be a force pushing us down while a lesser force partially blocked by earth is pushing us up, leaving the, in earths case, 1g force.
the bigger the mass, more of the gravity would hit it instead of traveling clean thu.
in this idea a black hole would be one large mass too dense for any gravity to penetrate.
another derivation of this theory might be molecular structures.
in essence atoms pushing eachothers away so they cannot collide, and gravity pushing them together due to lesser gravity from the counterpart atoms direction, the said shadow. thus leaving them in a point of balance, try to pull em away the gravity of universe pushes them together, try to move em closer and as they go closer to eachother the internal force would keep them apart.
the strongest molecular bonds would then be created by atoms that have large mass so they leave a big shadow, but emit low amounts of the gravity outwards from the atoms themselves.
what all this would be in effect:
there is no infinite gravity, it would be limited to the exact weight of the universe, and could be calculated by for example size of earth in relation to the size of atom cores inside it, and the result being 1g. a black hole would have a gravity of that said weight minus the gravity it emits itself.
as gravity travels at the speed of light, trying to go faster than speed of light we would bump into wall of gravity. basicly movign faster than gravity so nothing would hit us from behind but frontal gravity would be the weight of the universe so to speak, also no molecular bonds would hold since the forces pushing atoms together would be out of balance
proof, none other than the fact that universe is expanding instead of collapsing as it should.
thoughts or proof either way if im wrong or right would be appreciated