I'm understanding everthing up to finite/infinite sets, and countable sets, but am struggling a little with the idea of cartesian product, ordered pairs, the well-ordering theorem etc, and because of that, I can't follow janes algebraic approach to proving why the rationals are countable (Though I did understand Faldo's proof very well). I also can't follow Guitarists' definition of addition a few posts back, and won't be able to follow the strict definition of the function in terms of cartesian product (As Jane mentioned somewhere).
Anyway, it's this idea of 'order' on a set that is confucing me. If a set can be any collection of objects - bananas, elephants, whatever - then what is the actual rule that determines the order of a set. Is this something that only applies to sets of numbers, in which case you list them out from lowest to highest? but then you seem to have the ordered pair, (4,1) mentioned which is from highest to lowest.
I also don't get 'least element' (although that will probably be very clear when I understand the idea of ordering), and 'identity element', which I seem to understand as being tied to additive and multiplicative inverses. e.g.

has symettry about 0, so for all

the additive inverse is -n, and n+(-n)=0, so 0 is the identity element?
Anyway, one of you mind eleborating a little bit on this? If it is tied to the axiom of choice, then I think I missed something.