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  1. #1 Help me improve my sexual life! 
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    I am in love with a girl & she loves me too but it's been 1 year of relationship that we haven't had real sex. She just fore played with me & used to stop there. I think she was scared of having sex. I had tried several times to ask her as to why she doesn't do it but she was unable to give a concrete answer. But to my luck stars she did have sex with me and there was a problem of premature ejaculation. I have had sex earlier a few times but this sort of problem never aroused …….I think this was the first time with her...so!!!..Please let me know any good ways or material which can make me more known to having good sex and being comfortable with it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by doublanga
    I am in love with a girl & she loves me too but it's been 1 year of relationship that we haven't had real sex. She just fore played with me & used to stop there. I think she was scared of having sex. I had tried several times to ask her as to why she doesn't do it but she was unable to give a concrete answer. But to my luck stars she did have sex with me and there was a problem of premature ejaculation. I have had sex earlier a few times but this sort of problem never aroused …….I think this was the first time with her...so!!!..Please let me know any good ways or material which can make me more known to having good sex and being comfortable with it.
    I wouldn't worry about it. Most likely you were far too excited and it will get better in time. After a year of no sex with someone you're with I'm sure quite a few people would do the same.


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    Have more sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by serpicojr
    Have more sex.
    Agreed!

    Just laugh about it, it's probably only temporary.

    Things can only get better!

    You could empty your 'barrel' beforehand the next time you see her so you are not 'fit to burst'!

    Try squeezing the base of your cock when you feel like you're cummin, it will probably halt it, but it won't be long until you have to do it again if you're on the verge.

    The best thing is probably to do it more than once. The second time will no doubt last longer (or maybe even three times..or four :wink: )

    It's just nerves and the excitement of it all, after all you've had a year to wait. It sounds like you're girlfriend just wanted to wait, could be for a number of reasons, nerves or just not ready, etc, and not because she didn't want to do it with you.

    At least that demonstrates you're special to her and worth waiting for.

    Things will settle down.

    Stop worrying and enjoy (I'm sure you're girlfriend is!)
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    You could also look up tantric sex.
    "The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt" - Bertrand Russell
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    Quote Originally Posted by BumFluff
    You could also look up tantric sex.
    Tantric sex might be a bit advanced for now me thinks, because it takes lots of training. See what your girlfriend thinks about it.

    Tantra is an art which attempts to raise the Kundlini energy which sits at the base of your spine and is coiled in the lower chakra (where your sex organs are)

    For a man it means withholding orgasm and instead of ejaculating the energy is reabsorbed into the body where the energy can be put to good use. One a physical level it also saves you from losing essential amino acids and vitamins, especially zinc.
    If you ejaculate it just means she gets it and you don't (especially if she takes it orally)

    Have you noticed after sex how the man is flagged out and the woman isn't, on the contrary the woman is usually still excited?
    He wants to sleep and she wants to stay up later hugging and chatting?
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    This is a simple situation. The main thing is that you need to know to control your orgasm and you also have to understand the ways of enjoying sex.Since you mentioned that this was not the first sex you had then it must be certainly the complexity of having sex with the girl you were longing to have and when you finally got it you blew it up. I know a good material that can help you to improve sexual life . Just try it and you will thank me later.

    Enjoy!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by doublanga
    I am in love with a girl & she loves me too but it's been 1 year of relationship that we haven't had real sex. She just fore played with me & used to stop there. I think she was scared of having sex. I had tried several times to ask her as to why she doesn't do it but she was unable to give a concrete answer. But to my luck stars she did have sex with me and there was a problem of premature ejaculation. I have had sex earlier a few times but this sort of problem never aroused …….I think this was the first time with her...so!!!..Please let me know any good ways or material which can make me more known to having good sex and being comfortable with it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selene

    Tantra is an art which attempts to raise the Kundlini energy which sits at the base of your spine and is coiled in the lower chakra (where your sex organs are)
    Sounds a bit complicated that Selene


    All one does is grab the base of penis when one feels the urge to cum, this will prevent cumming. Nothing more to it than that, and of course cease operations for time being and move onto some other form of play.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity
    Quote Originally Posted by Selene

    Tantra is an art which attempts to raise the Kundlini energy which sits at the base of your spine and is coiled in the lower chakra (where your sex organs are)
    Sounds a bit complicated that Selene


    All one does is grab the base of penis when one feels the urge to cum, this will prevent cumming. Nothing more to it than that, and of course cease operations for time being and move onto some other form of play.
    Yeah well I didn't suggest Tantra someone else did, and I did say it was rather complicated and more advanced.

    Really It's just another form of meditation, but once it's mastered, one of the advantages is that you can go all night! (If you wanted to)

    Holding the base of the cock is one of the manual techniques to prevent cumming.
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