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    Forum Ph.D. Heinsbergrelatz's Avatar
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    i know this is supposed to be posted up on some love forum etc... but since this side is the "general discussion forum" ill upload this discussion. please do not criticize, thank you.

    say that you have a girl you really like, and like you text her everyday. but whenever you go to school, you just freeze, and just completely ignore her and not even talk, and this is not because you hate her but you are incredibly shy. the thing is she also likes you, but no progress is happening, simply cause you cant talk to her, because you are so dang shy...................

    so what's the solution here? any opinions please?? thank you


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    Quote Originally Posted by Heinsbergrelatz
    i know this is supposed to be posted up on some love forum etc... but since this side is the "general discussion forum" ill upload this discussion. please do not criticize, thank you.

    say that you have a girl you really like, and like you text her everyday. but whenever you go to school, you just freeze, and just completely ignore her and not even talk, and this is not because you hate her but you are incredibly shy. the thing is she also likes you, but no progress is happening, simply cause you cant talk to her, because you are so dang shy...................

    so what's the solution here? any opinions please?? thank you
    Well that's a simple one.

    If she has open communication with you via text messages you may want to use that tool to discuss how you have a hard time speaking to her in person because you're shy. I would not jump in to how much you really like her as that might just freak her out Discussing how you have a hard time speaking with her in person might not seam all that strange to her. Also keep in mind that girl "friends" don't always evolve to anything more then that. So don't assume that because she likes you that she "likes" you in another way. Just take it slow and use the tools you are comfortable with until you can overcome your shyness.

    Perhaps something like "I would talk to you more in person if I wasn't so shy around people". Leaving out the around people would chances are make her assume you have a romantic interest in her. You will find out far far more about her true interests in person rather then via text. My wife is also my best friend, I've had many female friends who had no interest in being anything more then just friends. I think you get the picture.

    Good luck!


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    thank you for that encouraging comment, appreciate it
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