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  1. #1 True Love/Oridnary Love 
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    I am always facinated by the idea that one can fall in 'true love'. How does this differ from other love? How does one 'know'. Are there any of you that has experienced this? Persnonally (you may think this ridiculous), I have got on with females that are my same element in reference to Star signs, I'm Virgo so Capricorns and Taurus's's's I do get on with more than usual, I thought at first, pah! What a load... But it's true, this girl I know does not beleive in God, star signs etc, but still we get on as though we got on with other things, this girl and some others of my same element no matter how much we disagree, agree differ or are similar, we still get on like a house on fire against others not being Earth element. This effect does not allow me to get on truly well with other Virgo's though. So if true love is not from star signs, which I'm still a bit levey way on-more in favour of star signs though, then how does true love come about?


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    well, true love is an area of human interrelation that needs closer study.
    theres studies that indicate that pheromones, secreted from the armpits,
    are a cause of this, and women are more attracted to men that smell like their father.
    so maybe you just smell madly like your girlfriends father,
    or maybe theres other factors involved.
    oh btw, you should learn to forgive eachother.
    when you love eachother very much, you will feel VERY betrayed when
    they disappoint you.
    dont break off your relationship because of that, if you consider suicide, dont.
    i know pairs who have gone through furiously hating eachother for a week,
    and then got back together, love stronger than ever before.
    its just a part of loving someone.


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    True love is something you think you are in when you first spend time with what you think is your ideal love match. This idea of true love wears off in time.

    These people would say that true love is when you only have eyes and ears for each other, want to be with each other 24/7 and would lop of a leg so you could hop across a burrning bridge (over a volcano) just to spend 30 seconds with them and then die happy.

    In time you think lopping off leg is tad extreme and instead you'll settle for preparing their hot water bottle at bed time.

    In time you tell them to prepare their own hot water bottle.

    In more time, you deliberately and willfully hide the water bottle and then leave a window open.

    It's down hill all the way really.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity
    True love is something you think you are in when you first spend time with what you think is your ideal love match. This idea of true love wears off in time.

    These people would say that true love is when you only have eyes and ears for each other, want to be with each other 24/7 and would lop of a leg so you could hop across a burrning bridge (over a volcano) just to spend 30 seconds with them and then die happy.

    In time you think lopping off leg is tad extreme and instead you'll settle for preparing their hot water bottle at bed time.

    In time you tell them to prepare their own hot water bottle.

    In more time, you deliberately and willfully hide the water bottle and then leave a window open.

    It's down hill all the way really.

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    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer

    If you get bored and don't compromise
    Compromising leads eventually to disatisfaction and misery

    it is far better to strive for a more compatible match
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    Quote Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity
    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer

    If you get bored and don't compromise
    Compromising leads eventually to disatisfaction and misery

    it is far better to strive for a more compatible match
    Wrong ToR many older people than you I know live happy lives with each other free from disatisfaction and misery and they've testified all the same what makes a happy lasting relationship and that is compromise. You've still got a long way to go yet ToR. Your only 37!

    Oh and great sex being maintained and varied I think on a personal note would help too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer
    Quote Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity
    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer

    If you get bored and don't compromise
    Compromising leads eventually to disatisfaction and misery

    it is far better to strive for a more compatible match
    Wrong ToR many older people than you I know live happy lives with each other free from disatisfaction and misery and they've testified all the same what makes a happy lasting relationship and that is compromise. You've still got a long way to go yet ToR. Your only 37!

    Oh and great sex being maintained and varied I think on a personal note would help too.
    and you are only a whipper snapper.

    First of all, my replies are clearly tongue in cheek, secondly, anyone who imagines they KNOW what goes on behind closed doors and trust everything people testify too is more than slightly naive.
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    They're older than you ToR and more experienced, they were at the dating game when you where not an apple in an eye. I'm going to believe wise and experienced people over you, sorry if that offends you. My age has no relevance to their experience. YOUR the whipper snapper to THEM! .
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    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer
    They're older than you ToR and more experienced, they were at the dating game when you where not an apple in an eye. I'm going to believe wise and experienced people over you, sorry if that offends you. My age has no relevance
    Who has more experience, a person who has been with ONE person all their adult life or someone who has seen a bit more action and variety?

    That answer is purely subjective. There are good arguments both ways and it depends on the people involved. Bearing in mind you don't know me or anything about my life you cannot judge me. BUT judging seems VERY much your thing doesn't it SvWillmer. If you want to go to Heaven, you're gonna need to work on that.

    My aunt has been with the same man for over 60 yrs.

    True love or just settled....?

    It's all subjective and it's NOT a competition. If you seriously think you can make that judgement based on mimimal knowledge of that couple and zero knowledge of me, then you are a fool.

    It would appear that you yourself have zero experience and so you have no basis on which to form a view.

    People who ask about 'true love and soul mates' are generally very inexperienced of dating,mating and relationships.

    My advice to you is if you really want to know what it's all about is to get out there and start living instead of wondering what everyone else is doing. Go do it for yourself. Have some fun, live a little.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity
    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer
    They're older than you ToR and more experienced, they were at the dating game when you where not an apple in an eye. I'm going to believe wise and experienced people over you, sorry if that offends you. My age has no relevance
    Who has more experience, a person who has been with ONE person all their adult life or someone who has seen a bit more action and variety?

    That answer is purely subjective. There are good arguments both ways and it depends on the people involved. Bearing in mind you don't know me or anything about my life you cannot judge me. BUT judging seems VERY much your thing doesn't it SvWillmer. If you want to go to Heaven, you're gonna need to work on that.

    My aunt has been with the same man for over 60 yrs.

    True love or just settled....?

    It's all subjective and it's NOT a competition. If you seriously think you can make that judgement based on mimimal knowledge of that couple and zero knowledge of me, then you are a fool.

    It would appear that you yourself have zero experience and so you have no basis on which to form a view.

    People who ask about 'true love and soul mates' are generally very inexperienced of dating,mating and relationships.

    My advice to you is if you really want to know what it's all about is to get out there and start living instead of wondering what everyone else is doing. Go do it for yourself. Have some fun, live a little.
    Uhh, women. I form MY view from those who've had way more experience than you, so my opinion is theirs, in realtiy I have assimilated their wisdom. They've had more men than you've had. You know nothing about who I am referencing or how many. Judging how about you? Remove the plank from your own eye before you attempt to remove the sawdust in mine. If I want to go to heaven? What? You don't understand my beliefs so hopw can you say that? Your wrong so for one don't get to far ahead of yourself and trip over your own feet, you won't listen to me so why don't you ask those experienced and from a greater variety before making your conclusion.

    I posed this question so that you, perhaps paralith and other females would contribute as they are more emotional and can offer more subjective evidence for a claim. I have no desire to learn of it, I've already established that I am a servant to Gods will and fate, I know that it is the most powerful form of love and that one day it may or may not happen to me, thats all I need to know and it's all God is letting me.

    Out of respect ToR, if you treat people equal you'll find people will respect you more, I respect you given your 'experience' (I won't use age here) against mine, but there are those above you who you seem to have trouble respecting and by that I mean the experience and wisdom that I have been given by those older than you. If I was older than you would you use my age then as a barrier to stop my knowledge passing to you? Grant me the same liberty, be equal.
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    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer

    Uhh, women. I form MY view from those who've had way more experience than you, so my opinion is theirs, in realtiy I have assimilated their wisdom. They've had more men than you've had. .

    How many men have I had relationships with SV and for how long was each one?

    What sort of person tells another person that they do not know a thing about that they KNOW people with MORE experience of anything than they.

    How do you explain this?

    Also number of sexual partners is NOT indicative of relationship experience. A man can sleep with a thousand women but never be with them more than a day each. Is he more experienced than somone who has always had steady gf's and perhaps less than 10?
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    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer

    Out of respect ToR, if you treat people equal you'll find people will respect you more, I respect you given your 'experience' (I won't use age here) against mine, but there are those above you who you seem to have trouble respecting and by that I mean the experience and wisdom that I have been given by those older than you. If I was older than you would you use my age then as a barrier to stop my knowledge passing to you? Grant me the same liberty, be equal.
    I grant you nothing.

    You are naive and offensive in many things that you do yet you claim to be God's servant. God does not tell you to go about judging everyone you come across.

    You presume way to much.

    I never said I know more about anything than the people you know. I said that it is subjective and YOU will NOT be informed of the complete
    intimate details of anyones relationship unless the people
    in question are total wierd exhibitionists who want to share intimate
    details with kids. Life and love can't be explained away in two sentances
    or a 30min conversation.

    I may have had more life experience than some who lives
    to be 100, but there will be others who are half my age and have twice as much experience as me. Age is not relelavnt but in your case, your total lack of experience is VERY transparent. Which is fine you are only 20yrs old BUT you are still judging others and assuming things about them.

    With regards to respect, I won't bother responding to many more of your inane threads. You really don't want to learn or know anything. You have afterall reported that the people you spoke to off the board told you everything you need or desire to know and God will do the rest.
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    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer
    They're older than you ToR and more experienced, they were at the dating game when you where not an apple in an eye. I'm going to believe wise and experienced people over you, sorry if that offends you. My age has no relevance to their experience. YOUR the whipper snapper to THEM! .
    I present proof of the futility of your thread. I replied and this is the response I got. You completely dismissed my view and on the basis of 'nothing' as you KNOW NOthing. I know that because I have told you nothing personal about myself in this regard.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity
    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer
    They're older than you ToR and more experienced, they were at the dating game when you where not an apple in an eye. I'm going to believe wise and experienced people over you, sorry if that offends you. My age has no relevance to their experience. YOUR the whipper snapper to THEM! .
    I present proof of the futility of your thread. I replied and this is the response I got. You completely dismissed my view and on the basis of 'nothing' as you KNOW NOthing. I know that because I have told you nothing personal about myself in this regard.

    Fool
    Did I upset you? Oh boo hoo, grow up.

    What makes you think I'm 20 years old anyway?
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    Quote Originally Posted by svwillmer

    What makes you think I'm 20 years old anyway?
    you told me

    I presume you missed my other comments that proceeded that one.

    Not angry are you SVW, not turning into an atheist are you? All that childhood deprivation finally catching up with you?
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    Hahahah. Very funny. No really I'm smiling :-D
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    I don't really think there really is true love. I think love is love, and true love is just a fantasy and cultural norm thing. There's no science to back it up; its not even a pseudoscience in my book.
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