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    Why does watching pornography make me physically sick when I myself can participate in sexual activity normally(I'm still a virgin though)?


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    Quote Originally Posted by The Catalyst
    Why does watching pornography make me physically sick when I myself can participate in sexual activity normally(I'm still a virgin though)?
    Uhm...

    How would you know regualar sex dont make you sick if you are a virgin? Or do you mean that masturbation doesent make you ill?

    Also what kinds of pornography makes you sick out of what you have watched?


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    gentlemen, although i'm sure that you did not mean to go against propriety by posting this, i'm sure this would be better as a private conversation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Catalyst
    Why does watching pornography make me physically sick
    Because it usualy pictures very disgusting things.


    Quote Originally Posted by The Catalyst
    when I myself can participate in sexual activity normally(I'm still a virgin though)?
    How do you know then??
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    Oral doesn't bother me.
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    I wondered as a kid why sex was supposedly "dirty" if so many normal people (like Mom & Dad) did it and because it was so necessary to human existence (and it's reason why we're all here).

    Maybe watching porn is similar to watching eating and drinking contests, etc. Eating and drinking are also necessary activities, but when they're misused, they can become disgusting.

    Tell us, if you will, do you feel any discomfort to any degree when you watch respectfully scripted "love scenes" in movies?
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    Not at all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by saul
    gentlemen, although i'm sure that you did not mean to go against propriety by posting this, i'm sure this would be better as a private conversation.
    Knowledge, curiosity and learning shouldnt have any taboos. The guy wishes to learn something about himself why shouldnt we help and what purpose would privacy serve?


    To the OP: Are you overly sensitive to other sensations than pornography when it comes to becoming ill? Or is it only limited to porn?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raziell
    Quote Originally Posted by saul
    gentlemen, although i'm sure that you did not mean to go against propriety by posting this, i'm sure this would be better as a private conversation.
    Knowledge, curiosity and learning shouldnt have any taboos. The guy wishes to learn something about himself why shouldnt we help and what purpose would privacy serve?


    To the OP: Are you overly sensitive to other sensations than pornography when it comes to becoming ill? Or is it only limited to porn?
    Knowledge and curiosity, although two concepts, belong on one side of the coin.

    However this member has shown he is (almost) surely about seeing how far he can push farcical concepts before someone calls his bluff.

    Entertain him at your own risk, I say.
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    Sex and sexual acts are not dirty, they are amazing things no matter what your tastes are. As long as all adults involved are consenting, its great!

    Sex is nothing to be ashamed of. Personally speaking I like porn, it is interested yet most times it is so totally fake. Its easy for young virgins to become mislead. Nine times out of ten sex is nothing like it is in the porn movies.

    Porn is for me, entertainment. Its funny and interesting at times. I don't like to watch it too much because it syphons off my energy and wastes energy on masturbating than out there getting to have some fun with real women.

    Society likes to drill into us that sex is bad, porn paints it in a bad light yet its still something you can enjoy. Like cigarettes and alcohol though, porn should be taken very carefully. It leads you on a path of more and more wild sexual interests because you get bored of watching the same porn over and over. Luckily I have drawn a line in the sand with it now yet for a lot of people it becomes an addiction.


    Sex is normal. Porn is not. Normal is still subjective of course, as its always best to take any free advice with a pinch of salt and two thoughts.

    SEX IS PERFECLY NORMAL HUMAN BEHAVIOUR.

    Oh and remember this any men. Sexual thoughts at any woman is normal, and if anyone tries to make you feel ashamed of your sexuality and being a man, you don't need none of that sir.

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    Why does watching pornography make me physically sick

    Because it usualy pictures very disgusting things.
    Yeah but we all like nasty things deep inside. :wink:
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Catalyst
    Why does watching pornography make me physically sick when I myself can participate in sexual activity normally(I'm still a virgin though)?
    now, the truly interesting question is: why do you believe that pornography could make you sick at all?

    Quote Originally Posted by Twit of wit
    Because it usualy pictures very disgusting things.
    is pornography truly disgusting? after all, billions of people watch it, but find it "disgusting' only in certain contexts, usually societal contexts... and that makes it taboo, not disgusting
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    Quote Originally Posted by ccdan
    Quote Originally Posted by The Catalyst
    Why does watching pornography make me physically sick when I myself can participate in sexual activity normally(I'm still a virgin though)?
    now, the truly interesting question is: why do you believe that pornography could make you sick at all?

    Quote Originally Posted by Twit of wit
    Because it usualy pictures very disgusting things.
    is pornography truly disgusting? after all, billions of people watch it, but find it "disgusting' only in certain contexts, usually societal contexts... and that makes it taboo, not disgusting
    Obviously, you have misunderstood this poster when he/she says, "disgusting things", I think he was more referring to, oh say... ...a jack hammer being driven into a man's anus while it runs at full power. If that's not "disgusting" to you... ...I think you are a very unique person...
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    Quote Originally Posted by ccdan
    Quote Originally Posted by Twit of wit
    Because it usualy pictures very disgusting things.
    is pornography truly disgusting? after all, billions of people watch it, but find it "disgusting' only in certain contexts, usually societal contexts... and that makes it taboo, not disgusting
    An interesting observation, even though I would argue that we find it exciting rather than disgusting, which is why people watch and become so attached to it. Furthermore, the general subject matter of it's intent, is essentially the most normal and natural event in the world - to which we all owe our eventuality. So how can that possibly be disgusting or even taboo?

    But it has surely become something of a problem for many folk.

    The disgusting thing for mine, is how we have managed to transform it in our mentality, into something that is not (apparently) natural - through porn and the sickly unnatural depictions it promotes.

    *This could turn out to be a truly enlightening thread.
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    There might be many explenations to your disgust.

    1) you are outside of sexual group think, and therefore does not have the ability to like what the other likes.

    2) your sexual compulsive stimulation are low, and does not trigger when you are exposed to porn.

    3) you may have been lightly traumatized by something anal/vaginal looking that makes you dislike vaginal/anal sex.
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