I recently discovered that men and women talk differently... Bounce these ideas with me.
Men:
Talk using thoughts, logic and direction reason.
Women:
Talk feeling using emotions, drama and empathy.
Women tend to use this approach in most of their encounters with both men and women, I have found out that women seem to think it offensive to directly talk to people about feelings or directly what is on their minds. And that they indirectly approach 99% of all their discussions with both sexes. Yet still approach using methods that invoke emotions.
Using this idea I have observed that women speak to stimulate feelings, such as emotions drama and empathy. Men use their words to make you think, use logic etc. Therfore I can understand why the whole 'women are impossible to understand' and 'men are impossible to understand'.
It isn't what or how we are saying things, it is the approach and the choice of nomenclature of our human behaviours and states of minds.
For instance, every time I talk with a woman any age now I use the way women talk and I get a much more responsive, thorough and interesting conversation. I have also noticed that the reason one of my closest girl buddy's an also my dear old auntie gets on so well with me in convo is because they are aware of this gender language. They both always talk when addressing something about me with thought, logic and reason and it works wonders. Now I've learned the other side of the park its also a much more fiery conversation and its great. It works wonders in many places where I meet women now.
What do you guys think, and girls.... feel, about this![]()