Thread: If you had a choice intercourse or BJ what would you choose?

A friend of mine (male) is being deprived of oral sex (receiving) with his gf and it raised a question in my mind

Which would men choose if given a choice of just one thing or the other

Would you choose BJ's?

or

Would you choose Intercourse?

Choosing one means going without the other.

Another friend of mine (female) feels that this is age dependent and believes men under 30 would choose Intercourse but older men may choose BJ's. So she is interested to know the results of this poll.

Please vote accordingly

I should add that this poll is not open to women or virgins or men who have not experienced both Bj's and Intercourse.

i suppose that drastically reduces the amount of participants in this poll, as the majority of the people here are geeky guys who view women as unreachable godesses instead of human beings.

Originally Posted by dejawolf

i suppose that drastically reduces the amount of participants in this poll, as the majority of the people here are geeky guys who view women as unreachable godesses instead of human beings.

lol, as if.

Originally Posted by Hanuka

Originally Posted by dejawolf

i suppose that drastically reduces the amount of participants in this poll, as the majority of the people here are geeky guys who view women as unreachable godesses instead of human beings.

lol, as if.

and you voted?

Oh come on, surely this is a no brainer. Intercourse of course. Blow jobs are nice but rarely have they got me off. I think of them as foreplay to sex because they are rarely the ending.

Ending? After you've been with a gal for years, it's all sex, no ending.

He means the climax, when he cums.

Seems to me not everyone who qualifies viewing thread has replied to the poll.

How is one to conduct serious research under these conditions!!!!!!

This poll to me seems a little bit biased......because the female orgasm point is somewhat missing. To me this is absolutely necessary part of having sex, whatever flavor of "sex" you preferr. I mean, I absolutely love oral sex both ways.....giving AND recieving. And there is also the aspect of skill, if you know what I mean. So I'd say...."It depends"

Originally Posted by Zitterbewegung

This poll to me seems a little bit biased......because the female orgasm point is somewhat missing. To me this is absolutely necessary part of having sex, whatever flavor of "sex" you preferr. I mean, I absolutely love oral sex both ways.....giving AND recieving. And there is also the aspect of skill, if you know what I mean. So I'd say...."It depends"

The poll is not about women, it's about men and what they prefer given a choice one or the other. It is very straightforward.

Let me make it clearer.

Let's assume:

You are captured by cannibals and they say

'Intercourse of Bj's for ever, decide or we eat you (as in being cooked)'

What is your decision? You have 2 seconds to decide...before they start sprinkling you with salt.

Then (considering the "skill" part) it's Intercourse

Originally Posted by Pong

Ending? After you've been with a gal for years, it's all sex, no ending.

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

He means the climax, when he cums.

Ah. That. I'm in your over 30 group, and like I said, it's been years.

Originally Posted by Pong

Originally Posted by Pong

Ending? After you've been with a gal for years, it's all sex, no ending.

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

He means the climax, when he cums.

Ah. That. I'm in your over 30 group, and like I said, it's been years.

Years of what?

Abstaining?

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

Originally Posted by Pong

Ah. That. I'm in your over 30 group, and like I said, it's been years.

Years of what?

Abstaining?

My point was that after (ten) years of marriage a guy doesn't think in terms of sexual encounters culminating in his orgasm. He might cum just as many times in a given month, but the plotline is different. It reads differently.

I was responding to GrowlingDog's post.

Originally Posted by Pong

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

Originally Posted by Pong

Ah. That. I'm in your over 30 group, and like I said, it's been years.

Years of what?

Abstaining?

My point was that after (ten) years of marriage a guy doesn't think in terms of sexual encounters culminating in his orgasm. .

What do you think of it culminating in? A nice home cooked meal?

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

What do you think of it culminating in? A nice home cooked meal?

I understand why you say that, too.

How about you contain these randoms spasms of bitterness and, like, write an autobiography... somewhere else.

Originally Posted by Pong

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

What do you think of it culminating in? A nice home cooked meal?

I understand why you say that, too.

How about you contain these randoms spasms of bitterness and, like, write an autobiography... somewhere else.

eh?

I am very happy in my life, love and relationships, are you?

I don't think you do understand much if you think these comments I make have any bearing at all on my life..

Meanwhile I ask again...culminating in what?

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

Meanwhile I ask again...culminating in what?

I did say "no ending".

I indicated I don't "think in terms of sexual encounters culminating in (my) orgasm".

From that you expect I must then have some other, overriding and greedy end in sight, like a plate of potatoes?


OK you may say you don't plan to leap off a bridge. Meanwhile I ask... what do you plan to leap off?

Originally Posted by Pong

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

Meanwhile I ask again...culminating in what?

I did say "no ending".

I indicated I don't "think in terms of sexual encounters culminating in (my) orgasm".

From that you expect I must then have some other, overriding and greedy end in sight, like a plate of potatoes?


OK you may say you don't plan to leap off a bridge. Meanwhile I ask... what do you plan to leap off?

eh? and eh?

I just don't get you Pong

Your reply to GDog said something about ..........ah forget it!

What's this about bridges....?

Oh and re the potatoes, that WAS a joke. I do make those you know, quite regularly I like to think!

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

that WAS a joke. I do make those you know, quite regularly I like to think!

Yes, quite.


Moving on...

Originally Posted by Pong

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

that WAS a joke. I do make those you know, quite regularly I like to think!

Yes, quite.


Moving on...

pah, I do too

I am a regular funny bone

Maybe i should clear this up. The question was simple, BJ's or intercourse. I said intercourse, nuff said.

GrowlingDog, always starting trouble. :x

First you have to define what sexual stimulation is all about and the characteristics of the mind while engaging in it. Sexual activity is in one sense about power... sure, there are more factors than that, but for now I will say power.

A lot of men need to feel a form of power; so I would say that if there were truth involved many men would choose oral sex. Simply because it is a more powerful form of interaction between man and female... etc.

It seems to me that power is an exhibit to attract.

If you take into account society and how that factors in, then you may clearly see that perhaps in a semi unconscious state the male wants to feel superior to woman...

Ok now as for the poll... it seems like common sense to say that the majority of males below 30 would choose oral sex because that is when hormones are most active and the need to feel powerful is acute. However; we take into account that some guys on this site may be young(not been exposed to the truth about woman) and have ideals about romance that would put them into a "making love" state; it may alter the poll some.

On the flip side men above 30 may be in a mid-life crisis and out of pure emulation say oral sex, when they good and well know that most of them are probably married, where the need to display power is no longer as necessary. A mid-life crisis may be attributed to many things but I feel it is more or less facing mortality... which in turn causes a set of reactions. This may also effect the polls.

ANAL....... BWAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! Which surprisingly was not an option.... sadly......

What can I say I take the cake for perversion....


But out of the two available options... it depends on the mood.

.

Schizo

Putting all these complications aside, which do you prefer, given a choice?

It would seem that this question like so many others on this forum, just reveals that most people cant make a decision or at least don't want to be seen to be making a decision. It's a very simple question. Now answer it without worrying what people might think of you when you do and it makes the whole process a lot quicker and easier.

OMG!

I might have known who would have started a topic on this subject

THE EXPERT

You are a strange one ToR

On one thread your spouting morals and tightly crossed legged opinions

And the next you're asking people stupid questions like this

How old are you?

What on earth are you playing at?

Or is this just an elaborate way to Spam and advertise your blog sites yet again?

Blow jobs.... no wait.... Sex.... now wait.............................................. .................................................. .............................................


Anal......


I mean blow jobs............



Damn it!

Its all so good.


BWAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!

Originally Posted by GrowlingDog

It would seem that this question like so many others on this forum, just reveals that most people cant make a decision or at least don't want to be seen to be making a decision. It's a very simple question. Now answer it without worrying what people might think of you when you do and it makes the whole process a lot quicker and easier.

well said snoop doggy dog.

This is a very serious topic, and I cannot feed back to my pal with these very inconclusive results. I shall have to do what all good scientists do (not that I am a scientist) and make up the results.

Originally Posted by Theoryofrelativity

I shall have to do what all good scientists do (not that I am a scientist) and make up the results.

As usual?