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    It's finally happened and not a moment too soon. I finally successfully completed all the course work to earn my AAS in IT Web Application Development and Programming.

    I know it doesn't seem like much at my age, 37, but being disabled having gone through a decade and a half of being with abusive partners that refused to let me study or work made what should have taken 2-3 years take over 10. I didn't really make any progress in my studies until I became involved with Neveryfly.

    Unlike my exes before him, he has been extremely patient and supportive of my endeavors and would never let me give up no matter what. No sacrifice was too much for him if it was needed for me to succeed. He not only encouraged me in my studies but in general any time I felt I just wasn't good enough, remembering sexist words of the exes. He constantly reminded me that I was not weak and that I was as strong as any man, intellectually and emotionally speaking. He does not hesitate to do the domestic duties of the house, like cooking, cleaning and getting the kids to school. And never treated me like those duties were mine or that he was owed anything.

    He even quit smoking for me without my asking. Switching the vapes that smell like starbucks makes me feel more relaxed and reduces my anxiety somehow. Maybe there is something to aroma therapy.

    Anyway, I don't know if he will read this but for all the complaining that is done about him, and how difficult it is for me to express myself verbally, I thought this would be the best way to let him know that I really do appreciate all his help and that I could not have done it without him.

    Thank you Neverfly

    I Love You


    (for those few who still do not know, Neverfly (the recently permabanned), is my husband in the real world.)


    Speaking badly about people after they are gone and jumping on the bash the band wagon must do very well for a low self-esteem.
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    Congratulations on completing your studies!

    You're never too young or too old to follow your dreams and to study and to learn. So congratulations and embrace all that you have achieved. You have earned it and all the rewards that come with it.

    Yes, I took you off ignore..


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    Congrats on your achievement.
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    Congrats. You are very smart. Continue your studies and say to NF from my side.
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    Congratulations! Say hi to NF from me too. Glad you stuck around here.
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    SG, keep it going, you are a tough lady and consistent at that. Man is not the answer to woman but love all the way. When you have a supportive partner it goes a far way. Hold up your head sister, you can accomplish what you will. Congratulations
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    Do you have career plans in mind with your education?
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    Hi to NF
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    Congratulations!

    Another IT nerd! Welcome to the fold.
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    oh, so IT nerds congregate in folds ? where's mine then ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by marnixR View Post
    oh, so IT nerds congregate in folds ? where's mine then ?
    Probably around your mid-section.
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    Quote Originally Posted by seagypsy View Post
    It's finally happened and not a moment too soon. I finally successfully completed all the course work to earn my AAS in IT Web Application Development and Programming.

    I know it doesn't seem like much at my age, 37, but being disabled having gone through a decade and a half of being with abusive partners that refused to let me study or work made what should have taken 2-3 years take over 10. I didn't really make any progress in my studies until I became involved with Neveryfly.

    Unlike my exes before him, he has been extremely patient and supportive of my endeavors and would never let me give up no matter what. No sacrifice was too much for him if it was needed for me to succeed. He not only encouraged me in my studies but in general any time I felt I just wasn't good enough, remembering sexist words of the exes. He constantly reminded me that I was not weak and that I was as strong as any man, intellectually and emotionally speaking. He does not hesitate to do the domestic duties of the house, like cooking, cleaning and getting the kids to school. And never treated me like those duties were mine or that he was owed anything.

    He even quit smoking for me without my asking. Switching the vapes that smell like starbucks makes me feel more relaxed and reduces my anxiety somehow. Maybe there is something to aroma therapy.

    Anyway, I don't know if he will read this but for all the complaining that is done about him, and how difficult it is for me to express myself verbally, I thought this would be the best way to let him know that I really do appreciate all his help and that I could not have done it without him.

    Thank you Neverfly

    I Love You


    (for those few who still do not know, Neverfly (the recently permabanned), is my husband in the real world.)
    Hi congratulations on your achievement!!

    Just a quick question if you don't mind me being nosy, is this the same Neverfly that was a member of BAUT & Spacetime & universe forums?
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    Quote Originally Posted by David M W View Post
    Just a quick question if you don't mind me being nosy, is this the same Neverfly that was a member of BAUT & Spacetime & universe forums?
    Giving that his profile signature is ┌∩┐(◣_◢)┌∩┐ ,then I'd say probably.
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    Quote Originally Posted by seagypsy View Post
    I Love You
    To quote Despicable Me 2: "Can I be the first to say "Eeuw"?"
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