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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
 Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:08 pm Post subject: Does size REALLY matter? |
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The Doctor
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Penis size. Is it really important? Psychologically, physically, evolutionary, stakes of pride and comparison. Dominance, whatever. I have decided that this issue needs to be discussed. After seeing TV shows, magazines, and even women's opinions of what 'small' is. I've come to realise that honesty is needed in this topic. I want to disucss every aspect, no jokes. Especially the girls. This may be a senstive topic for other people so in my eyes my respect for you is at risk here.
Lets start. Length and girth. Why do men care so much about size, even if they can please a woman far greater than a man with say a 7-9 inch penis, (as they know there are other useful muscles)? Is penis size the same as money wealth? Emotional wealth? A better looking wife? But why are women so concerned also, the jokes exist and women always make a joke when they hide something. So lets hear you opinions, if you like size, it obsesses you, or even if your not bothered at all. Girls, what is your minimum, maximum size?
I'll start and be honest, I can't complain but have the psychological want to be bigger. Personally I am 6 inches, and still want to be larger, thankfully I don't think about it all the time because I know if I do, I'll start thinking wrongly and my mental and logical standpoint in the matter would become irrational.
Discuss.
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| Orleander |
| Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:26 pm Post subject: |
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| yes, size does matter. You can be too small, but you can also be too large. I think girth is more important than length. Length matters, but girth...size matters |
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| i_feel_tiredsleepy |
| Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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| Size matters if you are really small, but I remember reading once that women reach orgasm 2/10 times from regular sex, and 7/10 times from oral sex. So, there are other aspects of sex that are important too. A standard male floating around 6 inches should have no problems really. |
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 3:33 am Post subject: |
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I still feel as though women can be too picky and are becoming sterotyped with the media. I feel sorry for the guys below 5 inches. Some have gone as far as sayng that a lovely guy they had been, that she could'nt marry him because she knew she'd cheat because he had 5 inches. I'd say the lower quartile being about 25% of the world's population is a very large number. I think women need to start analysing what is the problem, image.
That said there have been two methods tried for penis extention, and a penis pump and cream has experimentally been proven that an extra inch can be added. That with natural stretching can increase the length and girth by about 17% (around an inch), which is good I think. I'm considering it. Is that abnormal?
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
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| i_feel_tiredsleepy wrote: |
| Size matters if you are really small, but I remember reading once that women reach orgasm 2/10 times from regular sex, and 7/10 times from oral sex. So, there are other aspects of sex that are important too. A standard male floating around 6 inches should have no problems really. |
What is really small in your book?
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| yes, size does matter. You can be too small, but you can also be too large. I think girth is more important than length. Length matters, but girth...size matters |
Isn't that a little shallow?
I apologise for my perdancitity (if thats a word  ) but in this matter men are far more emotionally sensitive than women at anything, so try to empathise what you are saying and replying to. Men with penis anxiety may be viewing this, so try and show some understanding. Please.
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| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 3:44 am Post subject: |
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition wrote: |
| That with natural stretching can increase the length and girth by about 17% (around an inch), which is good I think. I'm considering it. Is that abnormal? |
Don't waste your time, it's not worth it.
Some guys have a 'micropenis', which is really 6cm / 2 inches or so. I can understand if a girl has a problem with that. But any normal size shouldn't be a problem, and 6 inches is definitally normal.
If it's not broken, don't fix it. Simple old rule and it applies here perfectly. Every fix is risky, even if it seems natural. If a girl pushes you to do it anyway then my advice is to dump her. |
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| Selene |
| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 4:18 am Post subject: |
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There was a saying
'Short and thin won't go in, but long and thick does the trick!"
Stop worrying Svwillmer!
Women love clitorial stimulation, and many can't orgasm without it. Fingers are very adaptable too and can do just as good a job!
Penis penetration is really just one aspect and can often come at the end of a really good session with all the other bits and bobs!
If a girl isn't interested simply because of the size of your cock, than yes she's shallow and let her go and search for King Dong, because she'll spend a long time looking.
Most guys have medium size, no matter what they try and tell you through bragging.
What's most important is chemistry and that takes personality, scent and many other things apart from size.
Most women would run a mile of King Dong whipped it out, because if it's too big it's painful!
And also your cock fills up with blood. If it's too big you'll end up passing out and be good for nothing! Size also varies depending on how turned on you are as well as how much alcohol you've drank.
Some of the best sex i've ever had with a guy has been from finger or tongue manipulation.
So start exercising that tongue!  
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| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 6:18 am Post subject: |
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| Selene wrote: |
Some of the best sex i've ever had with a guy has been from finger or tongue manipulation.
So start exercising that tongue! |
Apropos, maybe. A former girlfirend and I were out with her sister and brother-in-law. The conversation got round to tongues (I can just about touch my nose with mine) but when he stuck his tongue out as far as he could, it was about an inch. My girlfriend, when he'd popped to the loo, just said to her sister: "You poor thing." The sister nodded ruefully.
But they have two kids, so he must have been doing some things right! |
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| Selene wrote: |
Some of the best sex i've ever had with a guy has been from finger or tongue manipulation.
So start exercising that tongue! |
Apropos, maybe. A former girlfirend and I were out with her sister and brother-in-law. The conversation got round to tongues (I can just about touch my nose with mine) but when he stuck his tongue out as far as he could, it was about an inch. My girlfriend, when he'd popped to the loo, just said to her sister: "You poor thing." The sister nodded ruefully.
But they have two kids, so he must have been doing some things right! |
Ha ha ha ha!
Well a short tongue i guess means you just have to get the mouth closer (without suffocating, of course!)
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| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 6:59 am Post subject: |
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| Selene wrote: |
Well a short tongue i guess means you just have to get the mouth closer (without suffocating, of course!) |
When I was in my youth and attempted things like 'pulling', my favourite line was: "I can touch my nose with my tongue and breathe through my ears".
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition wrote: |
...Isn't that a little shallow?
I apologise for my perdancitity (if thats a word ) but in this matter men are far more emotionally sensitive than women at anything, so try to empathise what you are saying and replying to. Men with penis anxiety may be viewing this, so try and show some understanding. Please. |
shallow? How? if you can't feel it, the guy is too small. And its lame if a guy says "oh yeah, well...well... you're too lose"  Fine, mustn't hurt the guys feeling. If a guy is small, he better get good at other things in bed.
And you asked. is this one of those "You can't handle the truth!!!" moments? |
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
| Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 2:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Orleander wrote: |
| 425 Chaotic Requisition wrote: |
...Isn't that a little shallow?
I apologise for my perdancitity (if thats a word ) but in this matter men are far more emotionally sensitive than women at anything, so try to empathise what you are saying and replying to. Men with penis anxiety may be viewing this, so try and show some understanding. Please. |
shallow? How? if you can't feel it, the guy is too small. And its lame if a guy says "oh yeah, well...well... you're too lose" Fine, mustn't hurt the guys feeling. If a guy is small, he better get good at other things in bed.
And you asked. is this one of those "You can't handle the truth!!!" moments? |
I wasn't digging at you, I'm just stating that is penis size important? You seem to think that size is the only important thing in bed, is that true?
Truth? What truth?
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition wrote: |
... You seem to think that size is the only important thing in bed, is that true?
Truth? What truth? |
and what was it I said that gave you that idea? Only thing, No. Important thing, yes. |
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| 425 Chaotic Requisition |
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| Orleander wrote: |
| 425 Chaotic Requisition wrote: |
... You seem to think that size is the only important thing in bed, is that true?
Truth? What truth? |
and what was it I said that gave you that idea? Only thing, No. Important thing, yes. |
OK then. So if people are reading this and curious, size being important is Orleander's opinion. Which is one of about 0.000000001% of all females opinion. So if your concerned, rest easy  .
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| Dimension |
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As a few of my ex's have said (not about me) it's not the size of the prize, it's the motion of the ocean. Size is not important to most women other than the fact that no woman wants a millimeter peter. And no matter how much they may deny it, being good at foreplay is more important to a woman than being good at sex.
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